13 May - Romans 14

Today we’re continuing in Romans 14. Here are a few thoughts:

1. There’s a big debate about food in this chapter. It’s basically an argument the early church had between it’s members about whether God approves of certain kinds of food. This is something we still struggle with today isn’t it? Well, yes and no. Food isn’t the issue anymore but there are others. Some people still focus more on telling people they shouldn’t drink, smoke, use certain language, wear various styles of clothes or listen to certain kinds of music. (Unless it’s “Single Life” by Cameo; if you don’t know then let’s just say you’re welcome.) Instead we should focus more on communicating how much God loves them.
2. Paul tells us that we are not to judge other people. This is something that Jesus also said. One of the biggest frustrations Jesus had with the religious leaders was how judgmental they were. Paul is echoing Jesus’ teaching here. One of the biggest turn offs of Christianity for many people is that a lot of Christians come across as judgmental. We should lead with love and not worry about small things.
3. After saying we shouldn’t judge each other, Paul encourages us to each make a commitment to ‘not put any obstacle’ in another person’s way. He says all food is fine to eat but don’t do it if it makes it more difficult for a friend to follow Jesus. In the end Paul says it’s better not to eat, drink wine or anything else that will cause someone else to fall. 
4. Paul also said the kingdom of God is concerned with righteousness, peace and joy. Anyone who is about these things will please God and be approved of by men. Which is true isn’t it? No matter what disagreements you have with someone; if you’re a person of peace who does the right thing it’s really hard to be upset with you.

The actual application of certain kinds of food being bad doesn’t apply to us today. However, the principle still does. The principle Paul is trying to teach his audience is that we should care more about other people than our own comfort. Paul explains that there are some aspects of following Jesus that are about you and God only. Like whether you consider some food or drink good to eat and what days you set aside to focus on God. However, if you feel that something is fine to do but someone else you’re with doesn’t then you should honor your friend more than your freedom. It boils down to loving other people more than yourself. 

Do you struggle with being judgmental? If you don’t think so; ask a friend who doesn’t go to church if you are. It’s easy sometimes to not think you’re judgmental when in reality you come across that way. Ask God to help you always value another person more than your own freedom. Ask God to help you become a person of righteousness, peace and joy.